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Am I enjoying myself?
Tagged Under : advice, lifestyle, rant, stories
One of my daughters is busy making "crafts" in our living room right now. By that I mean there is a mess of stamps, stickers, paper, tape, pencils, and crayons dominating the layout of our table. She loves her craft time. Who knows what she’ll create today? It’s always something exciting…to a parent at least.
She just walked up and showed me her latest creation: a paper moon with tape hanging all over it. It was…well…what you’d expect a four year old to make when given the previously mentioned tools and materials. As she handed the creation over, she asked me if I thought she had done a good job.
Of course I answered, "Yes."
But then I felt inclined to ask her if she enjoyed making her latest craft. She said she did, and I reminded her that is what’s important when she’s working on these things. It’s not always how good her artistic creations are, but if she’s enjoying herself, that will lead to good things.
It’s been said before, and it sounds so simple and stupid, but that totally applies to my lifestyle as a freelancer. It’s good to ask, "Am I enjoying myself?" on a regular basis. Sure, there are many tasks in our careers that we need to suck up and just deal with, but if in our career as a whole we answer that question with a "No", then it’s time to consider our options.
This is exactly what led me from a regular job to a telework opportunity, and later from that opportunity to taking the leap of running my own freelance business full-time. In fact, I still ask myself that question almost daily, and it helps me focus on the direction I want to take my business.
Are you enjoying yourself?

